“I want a friend first. Someone I can be completely honest with.”

This, coming from a female coworker. You’ll hear it here first- Women and men are like night and day. Completely different.

Reminds me of a riddle I once heard:

Do you know why God gave women vagina’s?

No, why did God give women vagina’s?

So men would speak to them.

Complete honesty? Complete honesty? What do you say to the “Does this make me look fat” question? Good luck if you ever are asked that one!

As far as I can tell, most men want good sex. Sex that is good. If the sex is good, we can come up with something to talk about. Like, “So, when do you want to do this again?” And a friend is good as well. But who wants a good friend that you have sex with and the sex is lousy? Not me. I’d be looking for new friends. And do.

I’ve learned that complete honesty can hurt feelings. Not a good thing to do if you’re trying for a long term friendship. Some things are better left unsaid. Why divulge ALL your secrets and thoughts only to hurt someone else in the outcome? Wouldn’t you seem just a bit more attractive if you had a few thoughts to yourself?